Why Do Those Who Are Closer To You End Up Turning On You?
Is it those whose close and know the most that will do you the dirtiest?
I’m noticing this a lot, is it catching like the flu? Why is it that those who are closest to you are the ones who end up turning on you for some made up reason? I found that, it is proven fact that, it is the ones who call themselves down for you, and who say they have your back, your so called homeboy? home-girl? and any other name that one has come up with to define someone who suppose to have your back end up being the ones to STAB YOU IN THE BACK.
Ever watch that good movie where the childhood friend ends up becoming the arch rival, and either trying and or succeeding in killing the friend? Always finding a reason to do the one who has actually been a real supportive, and dedicated friend the worse have you noticed that? And it’s not just in the movies, the movies is just entertainment for you, and that is just good acting right? Wrong!!! Those type of acts being played out are actually being done by, and carried out by people everyday all around the world, but right now, I wanna keep it right here in the territory of Kalamazoo, Michigan.
Let’s be honest, many of you know of this either by experience or you’ve seen it done and some actually think that it’s cool as hell to betray a friend? A family member and or someone who through their actions whom have shown to be that RYDA individual and to them or even you, it’s okay? And what might be the response if asked why? The reply may be: “Well, that’s just the way it is” REALLY?
So, basically some people actually BELIEVE that, it’s cool for those who are close to you to plot, scheme and have hidden agendas towards you, and even try and hurt and or even kill you? I mean you see it everyday going on in different parts of the streets in Kalamazoo (The Hood) right? Set each other up both men and women, and then make it like that’s the coolest thing to do. I guess my question is, what makes people want to do such foul and dirty deeds to someone who they profess that they love or have love for?
People run around acting like they care, but then turn around and contradict themselves by committing the same acts that they say that they despise. And you know what’s worse? Our race of people (Black/African Decent) got it real bad, but then turn around and try to raise an issue when they feel like they’ve been violated by an opposite race (Caucasians Etc.) or raising hell about what they’ve done to our race of people, but turn around and commit the same acts on your own people?
You know what I call that? BEING A RACIST TOWARDS YOUR RACE OF PEOPLE IN A VERY NEGATIVE WAY. Now, a young Caucasian actually tried to actually challenge me on that, and some of my own as well of the fact that it is possible to be considered as a racist to your own race of people, and when I got through breaking it down, he (Caucasian) young man actually had to think about it. Now, I’m not saying that I am even right, I’m just asking if it’s possible? Is these type of acts that is being projected from a race of people being demonstrated towards one another through my own race of people? Why of course it is, but you need to have a better standing with the wording that you choose to use.
I don’t do the assumption thing, brother Malcolm X said it best: “Don’t assume anything brother” do you remember? I do, and it makes sense. And while I’m on it, what he experienced is a perfect example to what I’m talking about. Look how we do one another, and I’m supposed to just look at it like it’s just the normal? Naw, not me, that shit is horrible, and for your own people of race to do a man who was only trying to guide the people right, and give them hope for me, that says a lot, and to be honest it hurts even til this very day.
Mathew 10:36 “And a man’s foes shall be they of his own household.”
So, I just look at some of the things that go on and try to make these things open for discussion while many choose other wise. I’m not looking for a way to prove that, I’m right I just bring what I feel should manifest to the forefront, because a lot of people out here acting like their on some real shhh…. When all actuality they’re faking, and can’t be trusted. Why should you even want to trust the untrustworthy just for honor sake to allow self to be dishonored in the end?
People nowadays have no control over their emotions and feelings, and all they want to do is find fault in someone else just to save face, and try to avoid the fact that they are possibly victims of their own misguided thoughts and ways picked up and learned from ones external environment? “Leaned Behaviors” is what I call it, and trust me, I know about it. So if you see this as a real problem feel free to engage, because it’s open for discussion. Leave a comment below if you choose, and let me know if I’m wrong or not.
Peace and many blessings from Chief ATG X